
“Identity is strength, belonging, un-wavering support, truth.” - Ty Austin
DNA vs Mental Strength:
MAGA - Greenpeace - NRA - PETA - Cults
They are all groups (who cares what you think of them) that have fanatical fans & loyal defenders. It is part of their DNA, who they are, how they act, and governs their choices.
🪣Willpower - "I am on the Keto diet because I want to lose 20lbs"...is a finite resource.
It's like a bucket with holes in the bottom that you constantly have to refill. Eventually you run out of water to fill it or get tired.
🎭Once someone has shifted their identity, it almost becomes permanent. They never have to think about it or 'will it'...it is natural and part of them.
Healthy & Positive ways to help shift your customers identity! 👊
Initiations are extremely common. Baptisms & Bar/Bat Mitzvah's are some of the most well know. It's simply the formal process or ceremony through which an individual is introduced, welcomed, or admitted into a particular group, organization, or society.
How do you do this quickly in a local service business?
Creating a community name for your members (OTFers - Orangetheory Fitness, LawnGods - Landscaping,
A signed page that lists the values, mission, and expectations of joining this community
Giving them a certificate (or token) showing their admission
Reenforcing the identity by consistently using the communities name & values/mission/expectations
People don't automatically shift their identity, it needs to be consistently & positively reinforced.
Using the setting and completion of micro & mini goals helps the identity shift.
🎯Micro goals = easily reached in less than a week
🎯Mini goals = 3-4 micro goals combined that accomplish a goal in less than 1 month
These goals can be results, duration, completion of tasks (great for on-boarding), etc.
Once they complete a micro or mini goal they need to be recognized and celebrated as an [insert community name for you members] and then reinforced that this is the process/steps/path all customers take.
*Wanna increase the speed - give them a token (ribbon, pin, certificate) along with the other 'stages/token goals'.
In business they always say, "If you aren't growing, you're dying". That is true for customers as well.
If they are not increasing their knowledge, confidence, curiosity, self-improvement, courage...they are "dying" and their identity is in question and will revert back.
Give them ways to grow.
Clinics/Seminars
Ask them for feedback or help
Create Theme's of the month to challenge them outside your business
Find related topics and curate a list of links/articles/videos that help
Get them engaged with all your customers...your community. The more included they feel, the more they will
👍Adopt the identity of the group...slowly,
👍New positive identity thoughts will be reinforced by a 3rd part (your community)
👍They'll see & hear new results/outcomes that they didn't know were possible or exist
👍They'll subconsciously place themselves into a more successful/brighter future by hearing & mirroring customers who are further along in the journey
As people become more and more disconnected & lonely (61% feel serious loneliness -Harvard survey). You can repurpose blog content for social media
How can you help them?
History & current events show up that people will follow a charismatic leader who inspires, empowers, and stands up for what's right.
Historical people: Nelson Mandela, Martin Luther King Jr
The charismatic leader isn't necessarily 1 person. It's a group of people with the same passion, message, empathy, and commitment. A group is way more powerful than 1.
🙋♂️What is your passionate mission?
🙋♂️Who & how do you want to empower people?
🙋♂️What is your commitment?
🙋♂️How to you deliver your message?
🙋♂️How do you respond to messages in return?
🙋♂️Who or what are you mobilizing your community to do/fight/overcome/win against?
🙋♂️How do you measure or evaluate?
This might be difficult, but it's powerful inside/outside your business and getting new customers.
Increased Retention💰
Increased Customer Satisfaction💰💰
Increased Referrals💰💰💰
Increased Word-of-Mouth Marketing💰💰💰💰
A Legion of Fanatical Fans & Loyal Defenders who will market, sell, and protect your brand.💰💰💰💰💰
❌Nike isn't selling shoes, ✅they're selling identities
❌Bentley, Rolls-Royce, Ferrari, Mercedes...are not really selling cars, ✅they sell identities. (Honda & Toyota sell cars)
❌Apple doesn't sell phones...✅they sell identities. (Their phone isn't even close to the best on the market)
